Reference governors are add-on control schemes, which enforce state constraints on prestabilized systems by modifying, whenever necessary, the reference. This article studies the design schemes of reference governors for collisions-free leader–following coordination (CF-LFC) of nonlinear multiagent systems under unreliable communications. The “unreliability” is characterized as irregular topology switchings (e.g., due to communication failures, adversarial attacks, or other agents' blockages), which will often cause large transient coordination errors and further result in interagent collisions. To address it, an event-triggered reference governor is proposed, which dominates agents to perform the leader–following task if the tracking error meets the closed-loop system performance requirement, and otherwise the agents will temporarily “forget” the task and focus on avoiding collisions. By constructing heterogeneous Lyapunov functions, it is shown that the reference governor can achieve the CF-LFC despite the presence of topology switchings. Also, for a special class of nonlinear systems with strict-feedback form, a nonevent-triggered reference governor is further proposed by reconstructing the controller with a high-order integrator of barrier function as the control gain to adaptively adjust the transient tracking errors.