Optical pumping of molecules provides unique opportunities for the control of chemical reactions at a wide range of rotational energies. Chemical reactivity for the hydrogen abstraction reaction SiO$^+$ + H$_2$ $\rightarrow$ SiOH$^+$ + H is investigated in an ion trap. The SiO$^+$ cation is prepared with a narrow rotational state distribution, including super-rotor states with rotational quantum number $\it{(j)}$ as high as 170 using a broad-band optical pumping method. The super-rotor states of SiO$^+$ are shown to substantially enhance the reaction rate, a trend reproduced by complementary theoretical studies. The mechanism for the rotational enhancement of the reactivity is revealed to be a strong coupling of the SiO$^+$ rotational mode with the reaction coordinate at the transition state on the dominant dynamical pathway. This work reports for the first time a chemical reaction with extreme rotational excitation of a reactant and its kinetic characterization.