The kagome metals display an intriguing variety of electronic and magnetic phases arising from the connectivity of atoms on a kagome lattice. A growing number of these materials with vanadium kagome nets host charge density waves (CDWs) at low temperatures including ScV$_6$Sn$_6$, CsV$_3$Sb$_5$, and V$_3$Sb$_2$. Curiously, only the Sc version of the $R$V$_6$Sn$_6$ HfFe$_6$Ge$_6$-type materials hosts a CDW ($R = $Gd-Lu, Y, Sc). In this study we investigate the role of rare earth size in CDW formation in the $R$V$_6$Sn$_6$ compounds. Magnetization measurements on our single crystals of (Sc,Lu)V$_6$Sn$_6$ and (Sc,Y)V$_6$Sn$_6$ establish that the CDW is suppressed by substitution of Sc by larger Lu or Y. Single crystal x-ray diffraction reveals that compressible Sn-Sn bonds accommodate the larger rare earth atoms within loosely packed $R$-Sn-Sn chains without significantly expanding the lattice. We propose that Sc provides the extra room in these chains crucial to CDW formation in ScV$_6$Sn$_6$. Our rattling chain model explains why both physical pressure and substitution by larger rare earths hinder CDW formation despite opposite impacts on lattice size. We emphasize the cooperative effect of pressure and rare earth size by demonstrating that pressure further suppresses the CDW in a Lu-doped ScV$_6$Sn$_6$ crystal. Our model not only addresses why a CDW only forms in the $R$V$_6$Sn$_6$ materials with tiny Sc, it also advances to our understanding of why unusual CDWs form in the kagome metals.
Comment: 28 pages, 9 figures, crystallographic information files for LuV6Sn6 and YV6Sn6 along with supplemental materials in ancillary files