The openness and immediacy of the Internet provide a platform for the public to obtain information on an equal basis. With the awakening of the consciousness of freedom of speech of netizens, the anonymity of the Internet provides invisibility for netizens to create rumors and wanton abuse. The lag of law makes it difficult for infringers to be held accountable and victims to be relieved. Cyber violence is gradually spreading to campuses and victims Silence hastened the vicious circle of violence. The healthy Internet order was broken by Internet rumors, which not only insulted the parties' reputation rights, leaked the right to privacy, but also confused the public's audiovisual, and even caused some public events and affected social stability. To this end, this article starts with the current situation, causes, and characteristics of cyber violence, analyzes the conflicts and restrictions between the right to freedom of speech and the right to privacy involved in the Internet, and refers to advanced management methods in developed countries in order to comply with the healthy and orderly development of the Internet in China. Make feasible suggestions. In China's cyber violence management process, the government must play a key role. By enacting related laws, the government should standardize the rights and responsibilities of plural actors, establish mutual trust between the government and the people, and promote functional mutual complement between government officials. In addition, the government should strengthen the construction of social ethics and morals to increase the effectiveness of cooperative governance for all parties. When an accidental cyber bullying causes social imbalance, the government thoroughly investigates the whole story and publishes only the truth, and detects changes in the psychological structure of netizens in advance so that social ethics and public interest are respected in cyber bullying Should be induced. In addition, the government should make efforts to tackle the sound case by collaborating and collaborating with plural actors involved in dealing with cyber violence. Individuals of netizens should strengthen the protection of personal information such as contact information, address, workplace, and human relations, and take complete measures to protect personal information at all times when operating the Internet.